You wouldn’t have believed us if we gave out this advice but it is coming from a Ghanaian gospel musician that ladies are supposed to date 3 – 5 guys at a time.
US based-Ghanaian female gospel musician, Esaaba Haizel, revealed how she uses social media to advise young girls to date three to five men in order to assess them before selecting Mr. Right.
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She revealed this in an interview with Austine Woode on the Kumasi-based radio station, Abusua FM.
The singer stated that dating one man is very risky because the man might break the woman’s heart by jilting her after her heavily investing in the relationship.
Here’s what she said:
I advised young girls on my Facebook wall to have three to five men at the same time without having any sexual intercourse with them. You just have to be firm not to sleep with them. Having multiple partners will help you to study them, then you let the rest go, by choosing just one. Why waste your time to date only one person?.
I’m saying this because you can’t have it all. One of the men would be interested in your business, one would be concerned about the food you eat on daily basis thereby supply your needs, the other will be interested in the shoes, make ups, clothing you wear, the list goes on.
“I’m a Christian, is there something wrong with my advise to young ladies who aspire to marry?, its a good advice your pastor cannot give you” she quizzed.
Esaaba Haizel is currently promoting her gospel album christened ‘Nhyira‘.
Regardless, her stance on criteria for selecting the right partner remains controversial. But then, there’s no harm in trying if you’re a damsel reading this. Give it a try hoping that it’ll work because it’s a tried and tested theory.